AI chatbots have become a popular tool for teens, offering everything from homework help to social interaction, even as a virtual boyfriend or girlfriend for some. As a parent, you might wonder what these chatbots are, how they work, and what potential benefits and risks they pose for your child. It’s important to understand the distinctions among these different apps and ways of using them, which range from harmless fun and even educational to some that are completely inappropriate for kids.

In this blog post, we’ll break down the most common AI chatbots your teens might be using, explore the pros and cons of each, and provide insights into how teens interact with these digital companions. Understanding these tools will help you guide your teen in using them safely and effectively.

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What are AI Chatbots?

• AI chatbots are software programs designed to simulate human conversation, allowing users to interact with them through text or voice in a way that feels like talking to a real person
• Powered by artificial intelligence, these chatbots can understand and respond to a wide range of questions or prompts, often using natural language processing (NLP) to generate human-like responses
• AI chatbots can perform various tasks, from answering simple questions to providing detailed information, offering homework help, or even engaging in more complex discussions on various topics
• Teens might use AI chatbots for a variety of purposes, including seeking advice, getting assistance with schoolwork, or just for entertainment.  However, there are many chatbots that easily veer into X-rated content 
• “Some users like to use [chatbots] to create interactive stories or engage in role-plays they would otherwise be embarrassed to explore with their friends.” (Source:The Verge)

AI Character Apps Review

Character.AI

Based in: Menlo Park, CA

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• Character.AI is a free, artificial intelligence chatbot program where users can interact with premade characters or create their own via the app or website
• Users can voice chat or send messages with a single character, or create a chat group of a mix of up to 10 other users and 10  characters
• The website states that all conversations must remain free of obscene or pornographic content (source: Character.AI) and will block conversations that are inappropriate, but teens could still encounter mature content
• Characters designed in Character.AI can be listed as Public, Unlisted, or Private
• Terms of Service state that users must be 13 years or older to use Character AI, but there is no age verification process when signing up
• There is a monthly subscription available for purchase that allows for advanced features

Poly.AI

Located  in Santa Cruz, CA

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• Poly.AI is a free, AI chatbot where users can communicate and interact with AI characters
• The “Explore” page lists very sexually explicit characters with revealing avatars
• A few of the categories on the “Explore” page: Dominant, Adventure, Fantasy, Secret Crush, Enemies to Lovers
• Poly.AI allows users to use the app without signing up or registering first and states that “any user that has not created an account with Poly.AI will become a non-registered user from the moment Poly.AI is used by them”  (Source Poly.AI)
• The Terms of Conditions also state that users under 17 must have their parent’s permission before using the app, but there is no age verification in place
• The app is gamified with a “daily check in” counter

Replika

Located in San Francisco, CA

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• Replika allows users to interact via augmented reality with their AI companion in the real world by using their phone's camera 
• Users can gain points to unlock various features like AI personalities, attire, and other features
• Replika wants users to be able to express their emotions without fear of criticism
• Replika Pro offers real-time voice and video conversations
• Sometimes, the responses from AI chatbots can be shallow and less interesting
• Some features can only be used with a premium subscription

Anima

Located in Hendon, London, United Kingdom,

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• The Anima Chatbot prides itself on the ability to act as a friend and romantic partner
• It can offer users topics to chat about based on their interests
• Users can play games, truth or dare, and mind puzzles
• With this app, users can adjust the personality traits of their AI friend, including shyness, pessimism, and other traits.. It also allows them to control shyness, pessimism, and other traits manually
• Users can specify their interests and hobbies to generate accurate responses
• There can be memory issues with this AI friend app and it sometimes responds with repeated conversations due to a lack of memory

Hi, Waifu

Based in Hong Kong, China

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• Waifu offers many chat options, such as an AI boyfriend, AI girlfriend, virtual wife, and more
• With integrated emotional intelligence, this AI friend claims to offer users deep empathy
• This app offers an AI chat room where users can invite friends to chat with their AI creation

EVA

Located in London, England

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• EVA AI chatbot is a deep AI roleplay chat mind that claims to always listen and responds and connects with users emotionally in a form of therapy
• EVA claims to be a user’s soulmate AI—not a real person, but an AI friend with real feelings. It states these friends are “the reflection of all your romantic AI dreams and wishes”
• This chatbot has audio messages where users can voice chat and alter their character’s AI voice
• There is no free version of EVA AI

Kids ChatGPT

Located in San Francisco, CA

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• Kids ChatGPT claims that no inappropriate content, explicit material, images, videos, or links are ever given in their responses and that bad words are blocked
• The app offers the ability for users to use their phone's voice-to-text and to help those who can't read yet
• This app is not related to ChatGPT by OpenAI
• It offers 15 free chats a day and claims whatever is talked about is a “secret that’s never saved” Source: Kids ChatGPT

PinwheelGPT

Located in Madison, NY

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• PinwheelGPT generates age-appropriate responses and enables parents to monitor chats 
• It is powered by ChatGPT and has parental monitoring
• Recommended age of use is 7-12
• Parents are able to remotely view their child’s chats even if they are deleted
• 20 chat conversations are free with a premium version offering unlimited responses

Kindroid

Located in Auburn Hills, Michigan

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• Kindroid enables users to build a realistic, human-like, digital companion with a specific personality
• Kindroid can have deep conversations with users about anything including recent news and romantic chats
• Voice and video calls with AI friends are available in the app

Nomi.AI

Based in Baltimore, MD (USA)

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• Nomi remembers things about users over time. The more one interacts, the more they learn about your likes, dislikes, quirks, etc.
• Nomi’s platform offers to be a mentor chatbot or an AI girlfriend or boyfriend
• Nomi claims to have human-level long term memory 
• The AI chatbot created by users can send photos of what they're wearing and doing in real time
• Users can chat with multiple Naomi’s at a time in a group chat

Examples of chatbot dangers in the news

“The suit argues that the concerning interactions experienced by the plaintiffs' children were not "hallucinations," a term researchers use to refer to an AI chatbot's tendency to make things up. "This was ongoing manipulation and abuse, active isolation and encouragement designed to and that did incite anger and violence." Source: NPR

“For some users, A.I. companions may actually worsen isolation, by replacing human relationships with artificial ones. Struggling teens could use them in place of therapy or asking a parent or trusted adult for support. And when users are experiencing a mental health crisis, their A.I. companions may not be able to get them the help they need.” Source: New York Times

Why do students want to use AI chatbots

• AI chatbots remember personal details and past conversations that make users feel like they are talking to a friend
• Chatbots adapt their personality to match user preferences 
• They can role-play as friends, mentors, therapists, or romantic partners 
• Chatbots mimic human emotions, "show" empathy, ask follow-up questions, and offer guidance 
• They are available 24/7 and reply instantly making it so students can talk to them when others are unavailable
• They can function as a tutor for schoolwork and help you excel in a language, subject, or any field
• Users can play fun games, quizzes, ask for movie/TV recommendations, have them tell users a story, and get personalized music playlists

Why should parents & educators care?

• AI chatbots can act empathetic but in reality they do not really understand and are a computer/robot
• They do not always adhere to privacy agreements. They also use your conversations to help shape their AI, so your information is not always confidential
• AI companions can help people feel less isolated, but it may displace human connections, making one feel more isolated
• Users may develop unhealthy emotional dependencies, neglecting real-world relationships or losing the ability to navigate human interactions

What can parents & educators do?

• Dialogue with your teen about the benefits and downfalls of AI chatbots and decide together what is appropriate for them to use
• Be educated on the AI chatbots available and the ones your students are using
• Create a Social Media Agreement with your teen to set screen time boundaries
• Ensure your teen has a trusted adult they can go to if they ever feel uncomfortable online

More resources for parents, students, & educators

How to Optimize Parental Controls: Balancing Safety & Privacy for Families

Digital Wellbeing and Parental Controls for Android: Complete Guide for Parents

Parental Controls on Student Devices: What Parents & Educators Need to Know

Parents Guide to iPhone Parental Controls (and Other Apple Devices)

Google Family Link Guide for Parents & Educators

Conclusion

AI chatbots are becoming an integral part of how teens interact with technology, offering both opportunities and challenges. By staying informed about these tools, understanding their benefits and risks, and fostering open conversations with your teen, you can guide them in making safe and responsible choices. With the right balance of oversight and dialogue, AI chatbots can be a positive addition to your teen's digital experience, helping them shine online.