Technology, popular apps, and teen social media trends change so quickly that it can leave parents feeling like they can’t keep up with their students. While there are a bunch of security programs parents can use, nothing is going to protect your students better than YOU. So, we're on a mission to help every adult keep their students safe online.
We created this list of frequently asked questions we receive from parents and educators all over the world.
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What age should my student get a smartphone?
SmartSocial.com suggests:
Age 0-6: Kid-designed tablets with age-appropriate apps only
Screen time limits: 15-30 minutes per session
Ages 7-12: If your student needs to communicate with family (co-parenting, etc), consider a non-smartphone/cell watch with only call/text functions Screen time limits: 30-45 minutes per session
Age 13-14: Smartphone with “Green apps” installed
Screen time limits: 20-60 minutes per session
Age 13-15: Use your student’s projects and passions to build a personal online portfolio/website with parents. Then create posts/videos on the green zone apps as an extension of their personal brand
Age 15-16: Publish the portfolio as a website so it improves your student’s Google results
Age 17: Colleges should be able to find a positive online footprint for your student so they can shine
What type of device should my 0-6 year old kids get?
SmartSocial.com suggests:
Age 0-6: Kid-designed tablets with age-appropriate apps only “Kindle Fire for Kids” or “YouTube Kids” app on iPad
Screen time limits: 15-30 minutes per session
Activate restrictions for time and/or content Native parental control limits in device for specific apps and content
Wifi router control of apps and time limits for internet access
Goal: Start talking about, establishing, and enforcing positive screen time habits
What type of device should my 7-12 year old kids get?
SmartSocial.com suggests:
Ages 7-12: If your student needs to communicate with family (co-parenting, etc), consider a non-smartphone/cell watch with only call/text functions
Consider an internet-connected personal device like a chromebook/tablet with settings limiting downloads/screen time/accessible websites, etc. using Digital Wellbeing/Family Link/Apple Family SharingScreen time limits: 30-45 minutes per session
Create a cell phone/social media agreement with your kids (we have a free one!)
Activate restrictions for time and/or content on their device
Use Wifi router controls for apps and screen time limits (check out differen options on our Parental Control page)
Goal: Keep a healthy dialogue, talk with your student about their future career/college goals so they have a purpose when navigating social media
What type of device should my 13-17 year old kids get?
SmartSocial.com suggests:
Age 13-14: Go Green: iPhone/Android (with only “green zone apps” installed)
Make sure your students have a purpose with their social media apps so their new device doesn’t become a pastime or a distraction
Screen time limits: 20-60 minutes per session
Age 13-15: Use your student’s projects and passions to build a personal online portfolio/website with parents. Then create posts/videos on the green zone apps as an extension of their personal brand
Age 15-16: Publish the portfolio as a website so it improves your student’s Google results
Age 17: Colleges should be able to find a positive online footprint for your student so they can shine
What age should a student be on social media?
SmartSocial.com suggests:
Ages 0-13: Should not be on social media
Age 9-12: Social media contract listing accounts, login and password information, and family rules for what can be shared and what cannot be shared online
Age 13-15: Build a personal portfolio and start putting positive photos online. Then post on green zone apps as an extension of the student’s personal brand
Age 15-16: Publish the portfolio as a website so it improves your student’s Google results
Age 17: Colleges should be able to find a positive online footprint for your student
How do I get my kids off their devices?
Teach your students how to use their phone with a purpose (instead of as a pastime) by modeling the behavior yourself
Review screen time reports with your kids often and set family goals for when and how to use their devices
Have a central charging station in the house where ALL devices charge overnight - no devices in bedrooms/behind closed doors
How do I know what my kids are doing on their phones?
Spend time on the same apps your kids are using and follow their accounts
Look at screen time reports on the device often and talk with your student
Make your student the expert and take interest, even if you don't like the app/game or social media
Set up parental controls through Apple Screen Time or Android Digital Wellbeing
Consider creating a social media agreement with your student to outline how they can thrive on their device
How do I find hidden apps on an iPhone?
Open the App Store on your child’s phone
Tap on their picture in the upper right corner
Tap “Purchased”
Tap “My Purchases”
This is where you can access and review every app your student has ever downloaded
Apps they downloaded (and might have deleted) have a cloud icon next to them
How do I find hidden apps on an Android phone?
Open the Google Play Store (on your child’s phone and ensure you are on the homepage)
Select the Account Icon next to the search bar
Click on “Manage Apps & device”
Select the “Manage” tab
All installed apps will be listed
To view uninstalled apps, tap “Installed” then tap “Not installed”. Apps that have been removed from the device will be listed below
How can I prevent social media from distracting my kids from their homework?
DON’T:
Tell your kids only what not to do (without explaining why it’s important)
Create the plan without their input
DO:
Work with your students to set screen time guidelines
Schedule screen time that works with your family
No devices during dinner or homework Create a tech-free hour before bed
How do I protect my kids from inappropriate content online?
Start with a healthy dialogue about what good and bad parts of the internet look like
Remind your kids they can always come to you if they see anything inappropriate (and that you will listen and not judge them)
Teach them what advertisements are, how to be patient and wait for the ‘X’ when an online ad appears, so they don’t get distracted
Set parental controls through Apple Screen Time or Android Digital Wellbeing
Be careful when letting younger kids watch videos unattended for too long without supervision
How can I teach my kids to use social media in a positive way?
Give your student a purpose on social media
Teach your students to use social media to highlight their school projects, hobbies, volunteer work, or family photos
Consider working with your student to determine 3 things they want to be known for when colleges or employers search for them online
Teach kids that the “internet is forever” and even disappearing messages can be saved Talk with your kids about online bullying, what it looks like, and how the consequences can be the same or worse than bullying in person
“If you wouldn’t say something to someone’s face, should you write it online?”
What can I do if my kid is being cyberbullied?
Be supportive and remind them you are here to help them
Avoid minimizing, rationalizing, or explaining bullying behavior
Teach them to report bullying on the app or to a trusted adult
Work with them to try and solve the problem together
How do I know who my kids are talking to online?
It’s almost impossible to know…But, talk with your students about who they are talking to online
Discuss whether apps that allow talking to strangers are appropriate for your family
Be on the same apps that your children use Set up your own accounts on the same social media networks and monitor their activity
Know where the private messaging feature is on their favorite apps
What are some signs my child is addicted to screens?
Have difficulty turning off the screens and doing something else
Continue to watch despite consequences
They seem distracted when away from screens
Always thinking about watching something on a screen or playing a game
Loss of interest in friends or activities that they used to enjoy
It takes longer and longer for them to get bored watching a screen - They want more and more screen time
Sneaking extra screen time or lying about the amount of time they spend in front of a screen
Keep in mind that some students use screen time to chat with their friends
What do you do if your child is addicted to screen time?
Being actively involved in your child’s digital life will make it easier to spot any red flags that may arise
Help your child find other activities they enjoy that don’t include technology
Establish screen time guidelines and follow them as a family
Set up parental controls on devices to limit the amount of screen time
Create tech-free zones at home and don’t allow devices in bedrooms at night
How to find someone’s second/secret Instagram account?(Aka: Spam/Finstagram)
Get your child’s phone
Open their Instagram
Hold down the profile photo icon in the lower right of Instagram
Alternate usernames may appear - these are their other accounts
Why should I care about my kids’ digital footprint?
In the not-so-distant future, your student’s employer, college or internship will search for them online
According to these future employers, a student’s Google results are their new resume
Your student may be confused with someone else, and the other person may not have the best online footprint
Most social media accounts send their content to Google, to get picked up by the major search engines, and this will be a part of your students’ digital footprint for years to come
A friend or acquaintance may share something about your student that is unflattering, and it may come up in your student’s results
It’s important to regularly check their digital footprint, even if they don’t use social media
How can I keep my kids safe on Snapchat?
Download and use Snapchat so you can monitor your student on the app
Know your child’s username, get involved, have discussions, and monitor their Snaps
Make your student the expert and have them teach you more about how it works and how they use it
Turn off Snapmap and talk with your students about predators and the negative feelings of tracking your friends
Set time limits each day, including turning it off at night
Remind students that nothing (including disappearing messages) ever truly disappears
How can I keep my teens safe on Instagram?
Download Instagram and follow your teens on the app
It’s ok to be passive and view their posts without commenting
Teach your student to consider how their posts might affect others before they post to Instagram
Ensure their account is private
Set up Parental Supervision through Meta to manage their time limits
Have them set up “Take a Break”, “Daily Reminder”, and “Mute Push Notifications”
Have them “Hide Like and View Counts” through the privacy menu
Select “Less” under “Sensitive Content Control”
Discuss with your teen to never accept a follow request from strangers
How can I prevent my kids from spending money on apps?
Create a Social Media & Smart Phone Agreement that outlines what your children can spend money on and the repercussions of overspending
Set up parental controls through Apple Screen Time or Android Digital Wellbeing or Google Family Link so that they can’t install/download new apps or make in-app purchases without your permission
Discuss with your students about appropriate purchases online
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