Key Takeaways

When talking to your child about the risks of using disappearing messages, start by letting them explain to you the pros and cons

Ask about negative things they've seen happen when their friends or classmates use disappearing messages

Work together with your child to brainstorm ways to avoid risks on apps like Snapchat

Dialogue Starters

How does using disappearing messages change the kinds of conversations you and your friends have vs. using regular messaging apps? 

What kinds of things have you seen happen if someone takes a screen shot of something someone shared on Snapchat that was intended to be private?

What do you think are the best way to avoid problems that could be related to disappearing messages?

Additional resources for parents

Family Media Agreement

Negative Effects of Snapchat for Teens

Negative Effects of Social Media & Screen Time: What Parents, Educators, & Students Need to Know

Conclusion

Disappearing messages may seem like a safe way for teens to communicate, but they can quickly lead to unintended risks that impact their safety, privacy, and well-being. As parents, understanding these potential dangers and talking openly with your teen can make all the difference. By staying informed about how these apps work and encouraging your child to consider the long-term effects of their online interactions, you can help them make smarter, safer choices.