Key Takeaways

Students say that in a disappearing-message app or mode, they're more likely to say things they might later regret

Knowing that others might take a screenshot of a text or picture intended to be private can create anxiety and trust issues for teens

It's important to remind students that anyone can take a screenshot of a message before it disappears and use it however they want

Dialogue Starters (for parents to ask students)

How would you describe the appeal of Snapchat? 

When you communicate on apps that aren't made to make texts disappear, are you more thoughtful about what you want to share? 

What would be a reason or situation where you don't want to use Snapchat or disappearing-message mode in other apps? 

Additional resources for parents

Family Media Agreement

Negative Effects of Snapchat for Teens

Negative Effects of Social Media & Screen Time: What Parents, Educators, & Students Need to Know

Conclusion

Disappearing messages may seem like a safe way for teens to communicate, but they can quickly lead to unintended risks that impact their safety, privacy, and well-being. As parents, understanding these potential dangers and talking openly with your teen can make all the difference. By staying informed about how these apps work and encouraging your child to consider the long-term effects of their online interactions, you can help them make smarter, safer choices.