Key Takeaways

Predators who try to "meet" kids online will often encourage them to communicate using disappearing messages to avoid the notice of parents and others

They are master manipulators and will tell kids, "I understand you better than other people do" or "don't tell anyone about our conversations—they wouldn't get it"

Parents should talk with their kids about avoiding strangers online and never revealing personal information or photos that could be used against them

Dialogue Starters (questions for parents to ask students)

I don't really understand how you "meet" people online. Are they always people you know, and how can you tell they are who they say they are?

If your friends talk to people online they don't really know, what kinds of things would you tell them to be careful not to share or send? 

How do you think a predator might try to manipulate someone into trusting them or giving them personal details? 

Additional resources for parents

Family Media Agreement

Negative Effects of Snapchat for Teens

Negative Effects of Social Media & Screen Time: What Parents, Educators, & Students Need to Know

Conclusion

Disappearing messages may seem like a safe way for teens to communicate, but they can quickly lead to unintended risks that impact their safety, privacy, and well-being. As parents, understanding these potential dangers and talking openly with your teen can make all the difference. By staying informed about how these apps work and encouraging your child to consider the long-term effects of their online interactions, you can help them make smarter, safer choices.